Scenery in the besieged city
Mr. Qian Zhongshu tells us, life is a besieged city, everybody is difficult to flee from endless pressure and constraint, finish under four invisible walls for all one’s life forever. Though can not escape from such destiny, you can decide whether to live under this enclosure excellently, living value to produce life.
She has got married already for several years, since having children, in life has fallen into gradually mediocrely, feel the passion loses progressively, numb with becoming the theme coldly, go to work and come off duty, have a meal and sleep, it is the trifles every day.
Seem to spread out of and quarrel sound every day. Does he say, why are you more and more slovenly? She thinks it is in one’s own family, does what one pleases. Wear the outmoded
and loose, wrinkled nightdress, the stature that deformation has lost shape gradually after liking coming off duty, the hair is fluffy, leave on the back carelessly with the clip, and often chat with the neighbour everywhere in the slippers, have not gone to the beauty parlor to make the face to attend to for a long time. The exquisite woman’s image in the past had all gone, she was not any more that angel in the heart of his
The woman will not forgive him easily, return a compliment at once: It is lazy to look at yourself, either come back at dead of night, or know once coming back that reads the newspaper on the sofa aslantly, chat with beauty on the net from morning till night, how many days say ten more than what with me you, do you take and look straight to look at me now? Is not it I that remind you to remember my birthday and those commemoration day yet? You have not said for a few years " I love you " These three words? Deceive me in one’s hands on so?
Who deceives whom? He is claiming, jumping up suddenly after throwing the newspaper, you look at your look like this, I understood at last what was the old woman of yellow face.
The noisier they are, deadlocked they are, reach to the end, there are hearts thinking divorcing, the ones that helped each other when both are in humble circumstances and lived a long life together etc. swore an cath of enduring fidelity and seemed to bluff originally, who can still remember that looking at each other exuding tenderness and love on the wedding? The man thought that had married and gone home the most beautiful bride in the whole world, promised to take good care of her all one’s life, love her forever. It is happy and depended on, gentle like water that it is found all one’s life that the woman thought, a beautiful long hair held for him specially.
As time passed forget.
He praises and takes good care of the woman finely and smoothly forgetting the tender feeling that how oneself was once.
How disposition depended on people with the bird gently and gracefully and exquisitely once after she has forgotten oneself.
In fact, they only hope to recover " you who are original " in one’s own heart ,And has neglected two people’s common efforts of living needs of the marriage, has needed successive input and supplement, only know to ask for, will subdue the idle passion eventually. Hearing of the eye dyes a lot of families with rich material conditions, the difficult old age hand in hand finally; Many poor couple, but can stabilize the faithful emotion in the striving of life instead.
Suddenly admired the neighbour that couple. They in one’s own garden, two people transplant and get a vegetable plot meticulously utilize leisure, find the common sustenance, has reaped a kind of healthy life in industry, warmth of another cozy and happy life. Though when two people work, can often hear the man knowing the own business blame a few words of hers, she of a sanguine disposition always can understand and forgive, seldom refutes and disputes, have one’s face covered with smile that is content with one’s lot, compromises. I think, this is a kind of tacit understanding become in break-in of couple passing by half a lifetime hand in hand.
Men and women of marriage, as to each other, can longwinded several life trifling before eyes often, can let you perfectly willing hand to hold him while waking up from a sleep, transmit a tender feeling quietly, heart exuberants the ordinary and satisfied happiness.
The most ideal state of love is that two people become a companion each other, stroll on the way in life together. Don’t fetter, don’t twine, don’t occupy, and mostly offer, pay. Day by day, year after year, can dress up as meet the eye on every side warm and romantic encircling a city, each other’s compliment communicates, on friendly terms and chirp. It is the most enjoyable stage in life, it is the happy deduction.
When marriage and love walk a bit tiredly, need keeping fresh, need care. Don’t always think of only excusing oneself, and expand the spouse’s mistake limitlessly. How great marriage it is even if, move towards dull unavoidably finally. Marriage and love are and base of a fruit and flower held, can’t survive after lacking every one. And very fragile, need two people to water with permanent life, with the heart caring about each other.
The people in middle age, although the passion has already turned light, dull that that has been tested, beautiful and dull. Because of marriage and love of at this time, have already grown into DaShu, need the detailed language of warm speech like that when no longer like being young, only need one to support with one’s hand sometimes, an expression in one’s eyes has been already enough, have already appreciated thoroughly.
Marriage, undertaking, study and amusing, develop and lagging behind, successes and failures, all a kind of color in this colourful city, everyone every thing is a kind of element in the city. When all persons and things become beautiful because of being diligent and optimistic, color in the city is all even and harmonious, then this besieged city is not fettered again and pressure, is a happy paradise. Nobody will attempt to leave her.
The scenery in the besieged city is still gorgeous, wish everybody among them, go well all the way, it is old to go to, enter into the most enjoyable stage.
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